So much goes on in relationships and I love every part because no matter the good or the bad you learn and you grow. Lately I've been hitting struggles and I welcome them with open arms because I know of the experience I'll get from them. It's hard to wonder and not know what the other person is thinking or how they may interpret something but at the same time its a opportunity to learn to not worry and to learn to have patience and understanding! This has been a huge one for me recently. I didn't realize how "ME" centered I've become in my relationship. I know that I'm the girl the "princess" and I do think I should be treated like one but with that comes the prince. I mean I don't have to be with him I choose to be so in return if he chooses to treat me right he deserves the same in return. I've learned that some people aren't ready for the same things you are but that doesn't mean they don't love you any less. I run into communication issues with my relationship a ton they have had there good and bad times over the last three years and its all apart of growing and changing. Lately I need to be more understanding and he needs to be more open both huge struggles we have faced our entire lives. This is where I lay it all in God's hands. I know he is the only one who can truly open our hearts. He's the one that knows our futures and because of that I give this to him. It's up to me to try to be as understanding as I can. As well as communicate in a that can be understood and not all about me. Where it goes from there is God's. His timing and his ways. See as a little girl I've had it planned that I wanted to be married at 23 a kid at 25 my life was set. As long as I could raise my child without daycare and I could work part-time I didn't need anything more just my little family. Well reality sucks I'm about to be 20 and have finally come to terms with the fact planning a wedding at 3 doesn't do you any good when God decides when and whom you will marry.
So with all this I've learned 3 big things....1. Be willing to understand and communicate in a way that is successful and also loving for both of you. 2. Don't plan your future your not really in control of it. 3. Enjoy the journeys and relationships you get to experience in life...take in every opportunity you can to learn from them. No matter how short or how long...if its for a year or forever. Learn everything you can and enjoy all that you can. That is what your really in control of everything else will fall into place because it's the way its SUPPOSED to be.
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